Let’s talk about putting ourselves first, because so many people in our lives will try to drag us down with their problems. Unless you’re in that centered, spiritual place, where you can deal with it, I would avoid running in the other direction because nobody wants to deal with this person’s problems and that person’s problem, because before you know it, as a people pleaser, you can have five or six people’s pile of crap come down on you. All it’s going to do is ruin the quality of your life. You cannot go there at any expense.
The solution is really using common sense to understand who has a problem that could be fairly immediately fixed or those other people in our life that we know complain about everything. No matter what it is, there’s always going to be a problem in their life. You could fix one and then five more come up. You just have to, like I said, use common sense to decide who’s got something they could totally help with, because as human beings, we like to be kind. We like to be giving. We like to be helpful. Then the people that have these impossible tasks of these problems that are just gigantic or they’re going to keep coming back, stay far away. It’s okay to say no. I’ve done it. It’s not a problem. If you have high energy, you actually need to keep that energy to help people, the ones that really use it. Don’t be afraid to say no that you can’t help somebody.
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